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Dr. Neil Clark Warren, Founder
Dr. Warren is a clinical psychologist and author of eight books on love, marriage and emotional health. During 35 years of counseling thousands of married couples, Dr. Warren observed a set of characteristics that seemed to be present in all successful relationships. He called them the 29 Dimensions of Compatibility. After extensive research involving thousands of married couples, Dr. Warren confirmed that these dimensions were indeed highly predictive of relationship success and could be used to match singles. Ten years later, eHarmony's compatibility matching is responsible for nearly 4% of U. S. marriages.*
*2012 U. S. survey conducted for eHarmony by Harris Interactive®
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eHarmony is the first service within the online dating industry to use a scientific approach to matching highly compatible singles. eHarmony's matching is based on using its 29 DIMENSIONS® model to match couples based on features of compatibility found in thousands of successful relationships.
eHarmony is committed to helping singles find love every day . and with over 20 million registered online users, we are confident in our ability to do so. The eHarmony Compatibility Matching System® matches single women and men based on 29 Dimensions® of Compatibility for lasting and fulfilling relationships.
Traditional Internet dating can be challenging for those singles looking for love that lasts. But eHarmony is not a traditional dating site. Of all the single men or women you may meet online, very few will be compatible with you specifically, and it can be difficult to determine the level of compatibility of a potential partner through methods of conventional dating services – browsing classified ads, online personals, or viewing profile photos. Our Compatibility Matching System does the work for you by narrowing the field from thousands of single prospects to match you with a select group of compatible matches with whom you can build a quality relationship.
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In praise of the the new creature stalking the urban jungle – the cougar. She's a woman in her forties or fifties, on the hunt for younger men.
There's a new creature stalking the urban jungle – the cougar. She's a woman in her forties or fifties, on the hunt for younger men. A spate of American sit coms and movies are about to prowl onto our screens, documenting the mating habits of this predatory species. The tube announcement, "Mind the Gap", is about to take on a whole new meaning.
But before becoming too judgmental, let's look at the biological facts. The male of the species hits his sexual prime in his late teens, a woman in her late forties. You don't have to be Einstein to do the maths. I mean, 19 goes into 50 a hell of a lot more than 50 goes into nineteen. A toy boy's vocabulary may be small, but who cares, when he ends every sentence with a proposition?
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Are you sick and tired of seeing Asian women slip through your fingers because you "messed up" and did something wrong to scare her away? Are you utterly puzzled by Asian women's completely "unexplainable" behavior?
Let's face it. if you ever thought that Asian women are "easy meat", you have completely been LIED to. try going after them and you'll see straight away how annoyingly difficult it is to get them!
"How do I know?"
It's because I’ve been through them myself, done it all.
I've been slapped, laughed at, ignored & humiliated, even beaten up FIVE TIMES (by jealous boyfriends) just for approaching and talking to them! -- whatever it is, you name it, I've done it.
No matter how hard I tried, I could never "seal the deal" & get myself an Asian girl. One after another, I was always thrown off-guard with their "on again, off again" behavior. I kept getting blown off. over and over again. It was confusing. It was painful. It was awful. That rejection. That feeling of helplessness; that no matter how hard you try, these women simply are repelled by you.
I know the feelings of hopelessness & desperation that came from those situations are hard to swallow. And yes, I also know how it makes you cringe with shame every time you even think about it.
I know that feeling well. that antsy, unbearable feeling of needing to change.
You're getting restless, feeling a little uncomfortable in your own skin because you know you're not facing up those problems, and of course. it's so easy to just close your eyes. sweep it all under a rug. and let fate "take care of itself" like how you ALWAYS do.
But deep down.
You know you need help, you want answers & you want them fast!
Asian Girls. Super-Sexy, Super-Sweet, Super Hot. But
brutal as hell. and they will not hesitate to walk off mid-sentence if they don't like (or understand) what they're hearing. They will not hesitate to leave you hanging & walk away when things suddenly don't feel "right" without saying a word (it's part of their culture not to confront and hurt your feelings).
And it comes as no surprise. why? Think about it. knowing little, knowing close to nothing about their culture, their language, their roots. of course they fail. It's sad. but unfortunately, the things a guy would normally try to do to ‘convince’ an Asian woman to like him back will actually end up pushing her further away. even though it seems like the right thing to do at the time!
Fact: Asian women are a completely different breed.
. and conventional "westernized" methods will scare them away!
If you've ever talked to an Asian girl before, you'll realize how different they are straight away! "Westernized", non-Asian girls are generally more outgoing, spirited & lively. she'll be a tad more "open-minded", proactive and will likely pick up a conversation when it stalls. she's likely to participate more, touch you more. and generally be EASIER to read.
Asian women on the other hand are not so "straightforward", open-minded and transparent.
Example: First, there's the whole Asian misconception with kino and touch (use it wrongly, use it too soon and she'll run faster than Ben Johnson). There's another about language -- when you're going after a girl where English is not her first language, miscommunications are bound to happen one way or another, an innocent funny little comment you make might probably just
Turn Her Off And Scare Her Away!
Then there's this thing about maintaining "face" in front of society. To an Asian girl, "image" means THE WORLD to her. Her "face", the way people perceive her is extremely important to her. It's to die for. Put it on the line, shake it a little or mess with it even for a brief second and your chances with her disappears *poof*. just like that!
And that's the MAIN reason why you may have encountered resistance from an Asian girl when you tried to jump the gun and sexually escalate with her in public (she'll get offended, back off and push you away). but once you're both alone and out of sight from everyone, she'll pounce on you with raw aggression and sexual instincts like no other!
Most guys fail simply because they simply do not understand them: what makes them "tick": what their values, customs and backgrounds are. and how to push their emotional "hot buttons" -- the most vital ingredients to finding, meeting and "closing the deal" with the right Asian woman.
. And that's why you're on this page right now. you're frustrated with your lack of success with Asian women. you're not getting what you want from them. Why?: Cos you're saying the wrong things, to the wrong girl, at the wrong time. And until right now, you didn't know any better. that's why!
Others end up embarrassed, dejected. disappointed, disillusioned even because their relationship with an Asian woman didn't work out.
The reality is that these situations happen all the time!… and all too often guys end up missing out on opportunities with them because they just don’t know “what to do”.
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