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Just don’t do it

I know, it’s hard. You’ve probably been stuck in a crummy marriage for a while and you’re anxious to get out there and spend time with somebody new and better. Use this as motivation to come to an agreement so your divorce can be resolved quicker. Then, you’ll have a lot more freedom to see who you want.

29 Bible Verses about Dating While Separated

Deuteronomy 24:1-4 ESV / 11 helpful votes

“When a man takes a wife and marries her, if then she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some indecency in her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, and she departs out of his house, and if she goes and becomes another man's wife, and the latter man hates her and writes her a certificate of divorce and puts it in her hand and sends her out of his house, or if the latter man dies, who took her to be his wife, then her former husband, who sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after she has been defiled, for that is an abomination before the Lord. And you shall not bring sin upon the land that the Lord your God is giving you for an inheritance.

Matthew 19:8 ESV / 6 helpful votes

He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses allowed you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.

Matthew 19:6 ESV / 6 helpful votes

So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.”

Hebrews 13:4 ESV / 5 helpful votes

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous.

1 Corinthians 7:2 ESV / 5 helpful votes

But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.

Matthew 23:1-39 ESV / 1 helpful vote

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* Dating others while they are dating YOU

March 22, 2010 by 7inheaven

Hi Gail,

I met someone at one of your events and have been dating this guy for a little over a month now. I have really strong feelings for him. He is very open and honest with me. He just got out of a bad relationship about 4 months ago.

We have talked about it. He told me right up front that he was

not ready to commit; he is dating other women. He asked me if i was dating others? and I said no, I am not seeing or talking to other men and I told him this because I am very honest with him. He was pleased to hear that as he said he does not like competition.

But I feel maybe I should be dating others, as I have told him I do not know how long I am willing to sit and wait for him.

What would your advise be to this?

Signed

“not good at sharing with others”

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Dear “not good at sharing with others”

Thanks for writing and sharing!

Wow… at first my very first thought when I read this was that, this man has a lot of nerve if he expects you to NOT date other people – when

he DOES!

Hello, double standard??

However! When I read what you wrote more carefully, this is not actually what the man saying. He didn’t TELL you not to date others – he just admitted that it would be nice for him if he had no competition. He was definitely not telling you that you had to stay home while he’s out dating YOUR competition!

I have a feeling that you may think that your “loyalty” will win you points with this man, but all it might do is make him feel a little bit guilty.

Your instincts told you, you should be dating others because after all, he is not on the same page as you! Ready and willing to be in a relationship.

He told you straight up… not ready to commit; he is dating other women. Hey sorry if anyone out there doesn’t agree… but I give him credit for being honest with you! Some men (and women do this too…) will tell you what you want to hear, and go out and do what they want anyway.

How I suggest you handle it, is not to be upset with him, in fact be sweet to him, and tell him that you are okay with what he said, because you too, are just not quite ready to be tied down yet either. And then change the subject – and enjoy your time WITH him.

DATE OTHERS keep your options open, this dude needs some competition! Ultimately doing this will either bring him closer to you, or you will be able to walk away not feeling shortchanged that you were a “good girl” waiting while he plays the field!

But I do understand that a lot of women won’t just do that – they refuse to date other people while they are dating someone, because they’re “in love.” So they don’t – and yet he still does.

I think that is because women don’t consider that “dating others” does NOT mean “sleeping with others.” Dating others, simply just means that you are literally going out with someone and enjoying their company. You owe it to yourself to at least try to feel perfectly free to do just that… go out on a date, if the opportunity arises.

I tell you this because I learned the hard way, out of my own dating experiences why this is the best way to approach it.

I was dating this gentleman I met on the internet. He told me upfront, he really liked me but wasn’t quite ready to date exclusively. So I tried to date/meet other men but ultimately I just wanted to be with him. I waited patiently, never put any pressure on him, and after a while, I realized that he was never going to commit. Why would he? He was having his cake and eating it too! I eventually told him I couldn’t be with him anymore, that he wasn’t giving me what I needed and that I was out.

OH and guess what? Five days later after I cut him loose, he met a woman at a bar and started dating her, it has now been 4 years and they are still together.

So try to be strong and cut him loose early on before you get in too deep. Don’t sell yourself short. You deserve to be with somebody who appreciates you and sees you for the amazing person that you are and wants you exclusively. Don’t waste precious time on someone that thinks they are missing out, or is telling you they are “damaged” from past relationships and has to keep searching (Dating others) – can’t make commitments.

There are many out there that will fall in love with you and never look back.

All the best on your quest! ,

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Should I Date While I Am Separated from My Spouse?

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“Should I date while I am separated?” How many times have I heard that question? And, how many times have I given a hard answer? “If you are not free to marry, you are not free to date!” I first read that statement in Britton Wood’s book, Singles Want to Be the Church, Too . Mr. Wood has worked with singles and separated persons longer than anyone in his denomination.

After several years of counseling the separated, I am more convinced than ever that Britton Wood is right. When you start dating someone else while you are separated, you make reconciliation more difficult. The more you date, the muddier the water becomes.

I know that you have needs; you are lonely. Sometimes the load seems unbearable. I know that dating while separated is accepted, even encouraged, in our society. But most of those who are dating will never be reconciled. They will be divorced.

Dating is a prelude to remarriage, not therapy for reconciliation. Certainly you need friends. You need a listening ear. You need people who care and help bear the load, but the dating context is not the best place to find such help.

You are extremely vulnerable during these days of separation. Unfortunately there are those of the opposite sex who would like to take advantage of your vulnerability. Although pretending to be concerned about you, there are busy satisfying their own desires.

I have seen many men and women devastated by such an experience. Your own emotions are erratic, and it would be easy for you to get infatuated with anyone who treats you with dignity, respect, and warmth.

Have you noticed the number of people who get married the day after they are divorced? Obviously they have been dating during separation. If the separation period is a time to seek reconciliation, why spend energy in an activity that leads to divorce and remarriage? Separation is not tantamount to divorce. We are still married while we are separated, and we ought to so live, whether or not our spouse complies.

I know this is difficult to accept, but I believe the present trend of open dating immediately after separation must be deterred. Such activity encourages and contributes to the increasing divorce rate.

If you believe in the power of human choice, then you must concede that your estranged spouse may well turn from his or her estrangement and seek reconciliation. You want to be prepared for that day if it comes. Dating someone else in not the way to be prepared. Develop friends, but refuse romantic involvement until the fate of your marriage is determined.

The above article comes from the book, Hope For the Separated: Wounded Marriages Can Be Healed. written by Dr Gary Chapman, published by Moody Publishers. This book deals with the question of dating while separated, how to relate to your children during this time, and ways to improve communication. Assignments are given to encourage growth both as individuals and as a couple. The ultimate value comes not in reading but in applying truth. It’s a practical book for both the separated husband and wife.