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Blackmailers and extortionists
Emmanuel Tetteh (Nicholas AnnerteyTetteh)
Everything started out well with Emmanuel. Then came the requests for transport, school fees, rent, doctors’ bills, and funeral bills –all within a few months. His friend had enough and told him he could no longer cope with all the dramas in his life coupled by the requests for money. Emmanuel’s response was to arrive at the man’s office with the police, one of the arresting officers being Emmanuel’s uncle… He had a fake ID claiming he was 17, alleged that he’d been raped, and claiming that his anus was now bleeding. Luckily, he didn’t win but is now back online looking for his next catch. Word is the police are still looking for him.
Gaydar: Mrnicholas1988 Emails: lafaska2007@yahoo. com or pressty1@hotmail. com or tetteh29@gmail. com Mobile: 0242247305 DOB: 15 May 1984 (on one ID), or 23 September 1984 (on another ID, believed to be real). He also has a third ID which listed him as 17 used for extortion
Bright Harvey
Another Christian village boy who scams with his uncle Watara Toto from Nigeria. Expect blackmail, fake visa scams and 419.
Frank List (or Listowel) aka Frank Avorsey aka Kelvin Jege aka Kofi aka Jegejege aka…
Frank List aka Frank Avorsey
Frank is well known for providing ‘services’, usually for visitors to Ghana. He has a price list for what he offers and many people have paid and gone away satisfied. In fact, he has treated some visitors so well that he his public image is of someone honest and reliable. His charm and confidence have won him many friends..at least to those that have not seen his other side!
Because he has access to Whites, and therefore money, he commands respect from the people around him – enough to make him a gang leader? That is the rumour we are hearing and he introduces the young boys into this business, rules by fear and expects his cut of the money.
Most people are aware that many of his friends are scammers, such as Godwin Agomavi, Robbin Hernman, George Kosivi/Morris, Christian Agunor and Bismark Mensah. Surprisingly, people happily accept this and justify it by saying he has to keep them as friends to protect himself from them!
Frank Avorsey and George Morris
We know for a fact, that Frank repeatedly introduces his contacts to his friends even after they have scammed others . We know for a fact that George Kosivi/Morris is one of the scammers he continues to introduce to people who trust Frank with their security. Frank is expert at appearing innocent of what it going on. When he’s confronted about this, his explanations are confused and contradictory.
We also know that he has introduced boys as sex partners who are under the legal age.
In 2009, Frank claimed there was an agent in Accra who could obtain shengen visas for 2000 Euros. The agent was apparently called Richard Buju, email richardbuju@yahoo. com, phone: 0205 64 63 91. The phone number is actually one of Frank’s multiple numbers he uses. Richard Buju is none other than Frank!
See the section on Christopher Agunor to see what Frank’s Photoshop skills can achieve!
Fake hospital receipt
Frank also claimed hopsital expenses and emailed a fake receipt to collecGH5,000! The receipt is obviously fake, yet perhaps if you do not live in Ghana you would not know.
Ever wondered why Franks profile is luckkelvin2007? Because in 2007 his wife gave birth to a son who they named Kelvin.
The bottom line is this. If Frank is not a scammer and what he says is true – that he doesn’t realise his boys scam, that he cannot be responsible for them and that he didn’t realise the visa was fake, etc – then his judgement is not to be trusted. Frank has been made aware of all these things yet still continues as before protesting his innocence!
Location: Christian Village
George Kosivi aka George Morris aka Bole
George Morris
George does not appear to have any profiles on dating sites at the moment, although he’s on Facebook. He therefore relies on introductions to his victims and his friend Frank List often does this for him.
Although not particularly good looking his charm is that he comes across as softly spoken, modest, kind and with a sweet smile. That is until he scams you!
After sex, you will find yourself meeting the police and some thugs and possibly Godwin Agomavi’s family members. He may produce a used condom as evidence of your crime, may claim he is under the legal age and that he is not gay and you forced him into it. You will be asked to pay money or go to prison, they may force you to go to the ATM and withdraw from your savings or with your credit card.
He has known to have taken people to Michael Agomavi’s house built for him by his ex-boyfriend from Australia. It has been described as an open plan apartment, much bigger than the others in the area, with beautiful furniture and equipment. Could it be a coincidence that George’s email has the ending ‘au’ for Australia?
Location: Christian Village
Email: love_georgelove@yahoo. co. au
Yahoo ID: george_kosivi2000
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* Dating others while they are dating YOU
March 22, 2010 by 7inheaven
Hi Gail,
I met someone at one of your events and have been dating this guy for a little over a month now. I have really strong feelings for him. He is very open and honest with me. He just got out of a bad relationship about 4 months ago.
We have talked about it. He told me right up front that he was
not ready to commit; he is dating other women. He asked me if i was dating others? and I said no, I am not seeing or talking to other men and I told him this because I am very honest with him. He was pleased to hear that as he said he does not like competition.
But I feel maybe I should be dating others, as I have told him I do not know how long I am willing to sit and wait for him.
What would your advise be to this?
Signed
“not good at sharing with others”
______________________________________________
Dear “not good at sharing with others”
Thanks for writing and sharing!
Wow… at first my very first thought when I read this was that, this man has a lot of nerve if he expects you to NOT date other people – when
he DOES!
Hello, double standard??
However! When I read what you wrote more carefully, this is not actually what the man saying. He didn’t TELL you not to date others – he just admitted that it would be nice for him if he had no competition. He was definitely not telling you that you had to stay home while he’s out dating YOUR competition!
I have a feeling that you may think that your “loyalty” will win you points with this man, but all it might do is make him feel a little bit guilty.
Your instincts told you, you should be dating others because after all, he is not on the same page as you! Ready and willing to be in a relationship.
He told you straight up… not ready to commit; he is dating other women. Hey sorry if anyone out there doesn’t agree… but I give him credit for being honest with you! Some men (and women do this too…) will tell you what you want to hear, and go out and do what they want anyway.
How I suggest you handle it, is not to be upset with him, in fact be sweet to him, and tell him that you are okay with what he said, because you too, are just not quite ready to be tied down yet either. And then change the subject – and enjoy your time WITH him.
DATE OTHERS keep your options open, this dude needs some competition! Ultimately doing this will either bring him closer to you, or you will be able to walk away not feeling shortchanged that you were a “good girl” waiting while he plays the field!
But I do understand that a lot of women won’t just do that – they refuse to date other people while they are dating someone, because they’re “in love.” So they don’t – and yet he still does.
I think that is because women don’t consider that “dating others” does NOT mean “sleeping with others.” Dating others, simply just means that you are literally going out with someone and enjoying their company. You owe it to yourself to at least try to feel perfectly free to do just that… go out on a date, if the opportunity arises.
I tell you this because I learned the hard way, out of my own dating experiences why this is the best way to approach it.
I was dating this gentleman I met on the internet. He told me upfront, he really liked me but wasn’t quite ready to date exclusively. So I tried to date/meet other men but ultimately I just wanted to be with him. I waited patiently, never put any pressure on him, and after a while, I realized that he was never going to commit. Why would he? He was having his cake and eating it too! I eventually told him I couldn’t be with him anymore, that he wasn’t giving me what I needed and that I was out.
OH and guess what? Five days later after I cut him loose, he met a woman at a bar and started dating her, it has now been 4 years and they are still together.
So try to be strong and cut him loose early on before you get in too deep. Don’t sell yourself short. You deserve to be with somebody who appreciates you and sees you for the amazing person that you are and wants you exclusively. Don’t waste precious time on someone that thinks they are missing out, or is telling you they are “damaged” from past relationships and has to keep searching (Dating others) – can’t make commitments.
There are many out there that will fall in love with you and never look back.
All the best on your quest! ,
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Над курсом работали 12 экспертов на протяжении 3-х лет
Цикл занятий по курсу «Основы программирования» подготовлен профессиональными преподавателями учебного центра «Школа Программирования», лидера России на рынке обучения программированию. Программа курса подготовлена совместно с экспертами из ведущих ИТ-компаний:
Из которой ты узнаешь, почему 98 из 100 программистов обречены на провал!
. а поддерживаем наших выпускников:
— Денис Кисилев. Стерлитамак
«От микроконтроллеров к собственной веб-студии»
До знакомства со Школой Программирования: Денис работник обычной фирмы, коих много, в области автоматизации производства на должности инженера-программиста в городе Стерлитамак.
Основное занятие: программировать промышленные контроллеры на управление различными процессами производства чего-либо. И вот в начале 2010 г. бесконечные поездки в командировки, заводы, шум, пыль и офиссная тягомотина начали его напрягать.
Как узнал про Школу Программирования
Его друг и по совместительству веб-дизайнер организовал свою веб-студию (тогда она называлась "Дизайн-студия Волкова"), но дела у него обстояли не очень хорошо. Уже несколько месяцев он пытался убедить Дениса изучать веб-программирование, т. к. именно данного специалиста ему и не хватало в тот момент.
И наконец Денис целенаправленно занялся поисками каких-нибудь курсов по PHP. Вот так и наткнулся на курс «PHP. Уровень 1 - Основы веб-разработки» Школы Программирования. С первых же дней прохождения курса он понял, что стал изучать именно то, что ему на самом деле интересно.
Далее Денис узнает о курсах «PHP. Уровень 2 – Профессиональная веб-разработка» и «JavaScript. Интерактивные веб-приложения». Денис не раздумывая записывается на них, т. к. жажда знаний была в самом разгаре.
Где-то в середине прохождения «JavaScript. Интерактивные веб-приложения» Денис понимает свою готовность начать работать в студии своего друга. В середине лета 2010 г. они совместно принимают решение о ребрендинге студии, переименовывают ее в студию "Стизи" (studio easy), определяют основные направления работы. Денис переделывает сайт на основе полученных знаний на курсах, и "лед тронулся, господа присяжные заседатели…". Начали появляться первые заказы, работа закипела!
Планы
2011 г. был годом становления студии, ребятами были поняты и осознаны многие подводные камни, более четко вырисовалось направление работы. И в начале 2012 г. Денис уволился с прежней работы, окончательно посветив себя любимому делу в собственной веб-студии.
В планах на ближайшее время арендовать офис, найти толковых людей и начать расширение штата, т. к. с заказами проблем уже нет!
Dating Someone With Baggage
Yesterday I had an interesting conversation with a friend about dating a man with baggage . What is baggage? Baggage can be children, unemployment, an ex-wife or an ex-husband. My friend is strongly interested in this guy, but he has all forms of baggage. He has 3 children with an ex-wife (well they are separated), and while he is employed, he struggles to live independently and pay the agreed support for his 3 children. My friend, who has 0 baggage, questioned whether or not she can handle his baggage. In the past I dated a man with baggage, so when she asked for my opinion, I referred back to my experience.
I dated a man with a different baggage than my friend’s guy. My boyfriend at the time had 5 kids (count ‘em 1,2,3,4,5), 3 baby mothers, and his income was barely enough to support himself. Keep in mind this relationship was YEARS ago. I have grown immensely in whom I date, and limitations on the baggage count. Anyway, at the time it was A LOT of baggage to deal with, especially since I was so young. I liked my boyfriend; however I had reservations about the relationship. I have 0 children, and at the time I was pursuing my Bachelor’s degree. I was in a position of personal and professional growth. Some might ask (and some did ask) “Why are you with him?” It was a question I did not know the answer to, except to say the same thing women on Maury say, “But I love him.” Well the “love” eventually faded. I had to be honest with myself and consider what I wanted for my life. Clearly my boyfriend lived his life, but my adult life was just beginning. I wanted children of my own; he already had 5. I wanted to be in a relationship without outside interference; he had 3 baby mothers. I wanted to have a career and grow professionally; he was still growing professionally too, however he had 5 kids to support (that’s a lot of MOOLAH!) Love, or what I thought was love, was a great feeling at that moment, but it was too much baggage.
My father, who I consider a wise man, gave advice that stuck with me. He advised that if I married a man with kids, eventually I would be supporting the kids financially and emotionally. My father asked me whether or not my boyfriend was doing everything possible to increase his minimal income? Was he doing everything possible to support his 5 children and himself? He wanted me to understand that my boyfriend’s baggage would eventually become my baggage. Needless to say I had quite a bit to think about after the conversation with my father. I decided the situation was not beneficial for me and my goals. I couldn’t be happier with my decision. I don’t have regrets about any of my dating experiences because they’ve helped me grow and realize what I want in a mate. That experience helped me think about how much baggage I am willing to handle. I am not willing to deal with multiple kids (1 is fine), multiple baby mothers (1 is fine), and someone who is not ambitious and pushing themself to the max (this is non-negotiable). So to my friend I say, it is true that you don’t know when love will hit you, but you also have to be realistic and consider everything! I do not judge people who are in situations like mine or my friend’s, however if it bothers you then take a moment to think about what you really want. Do you want to avoid the drama and travel with a carry-on, or is it worth paying the baggage fees? #thinkaboutit
*What do men think about dating a woman with baggage? Is baggage a deal-breaker? What are your baggage limits?
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STAGES in Christian Dating/Courtship Relationship
There is a progression that should take place in building a Christian dating relationship. The following is offered as a short Christian dating guide for Christian singles to consider as they build a Christian dating relationship.
(Note: As soon as I say Christian dating guide, every single Christian reading this will think they are an exception and the timing noted does not apply to them. Yes – it does! One of the strangest phenomenons that I have observed is that singles dating behavior is more common than most of us think. I encourage you to not look for the “exception” but where you can build the type of Christian dating relationship that will serve you and your partner well for years to come.)
FANTASY STAGE: 1 – 6 months
1. There is an attraction to each other and Christian singles immediately (or soon thereafter) think they have found their soul mate. Candidly, there is really little more in the Christian dating relationship during this stage than “physical attraction”.
2. There is a temptation for Christian singles to begin saying, “I love you” during this fantasy stage. What the expression really is saying is – “I am in love with the idea of being in love” AND “I really think you are the answer for ME”! It is mostly self-serving.
3. The emphasis should be upon enjoying each other’s company and building a FRIENDSHIP and refraining from going any further.
4. After 2 to 3 months of this type of dating and it is mutually agreed, the Christian dating relationship can move into an exclusive dating arrangement. This should be mutually agreed to and clearly understood by both Christian singles.
5. It is very important that each person have their own accountability group of their own gender. The progress of the Christian dating relationship should be shared so that their objectivity and accountability can be a valuable resource to the couple.
AFFIRMING STAGE: 6 – 12 months
1. Once a couple is satisfied that there is something to take to the next level, the couple should develop a plan in how they can best get to know each other in “real settings” not just in Christian dating situations. This plan will include such things as spending time around family and close friends to enable each other to see how the other person builds and sustains all relationships.
2. I do not suggest that the couple spend all their time together at this stage. It is a temptation to do so, but I suggest that it is actually unhealthy for the Christian dating relationship. Our emotions need to “grow” into this type of deep Christian dating relationship. Pushing the pace causes areas of each other’s character to not be observed. For example: Can the couple enjoy their alone time as well as their together time? If not, what is the “force” at play that is “pushing”? This often means that a healthy bonding is not taking place and the emphasis is upon self-satisfaction in this Christian dating relationship.
3. It is very important to look for CHARACTER issues in each other during this stage of Christian dating. Give yourself enough time and enough settings where character issues can surface. Why is this important? Individuals can “mask” character issues for an extended period of time – especially a few months during the fantasy period of Christian dating. But character is the foundation upon which commitment is built. Character does not change just because one gets married. You need to know “what they are really like” before you move into a marital relationship.
PRE-ENGAGEMENT STAGE: 1 to 2 years
1. The couple has spent a good deal of time building their Christian dating relationship. They mutually agree that this relationship has the great potential of moving into marriage. It is important that there be a “pre” engagement period of time. There is no set time frame for a pre-engagement period. It is more important that the process be completed than the time completed.
2. Marital inventories and temperament sorting should be taken at this stage. These are a wonderful means of finding out which areas you are really in “sync” and where you are apart. It serves as a basis for building the Christian dating relationship into as healthy a one as possible BEFORE marriage. (I highly recommend the inventories developed by Dr. David Olson that can be found at Life Innovations. There are many counselors who can provide Christian singles with insights into the results found in these inventories. The Myers-Briggs temperament sorting is another excellent source of information that each person should know about themselves and each other.)
3. At least 4 sessions should be spent with a Christian counselor who is trained in pre-marital counseling. It would be especially helpful to take the inventories mentioned above to the counselor for their input.
4. It is very important that the couple receive affirmations from family and friends during this stage. If they do not (unless there is a good reason), the couple should take the time to listen to the concerns and take steps to ensure that they are embracing and working through them.
1. Once a couple arrives at the point that they “know” that they want to be married and have all the affirmations that they can receive, they can move from the Christian dating stage with confidence into the engagement stage.
2. I do not recommend a prolonged engagement once the couple decides to get married. If they have done the process in a “seasoning” manner, they should plan to marry as practical – with mutual agreement. I say this so that pre-marital sex will not be a temptation.
MARRIAGE STAGE:
The couple should be able to enjoy the blessings of God as well as family and friends as they move into a marriage that has been well planned and confirmed in a healthy process. They can be assured that they have taken the steps to assure a long and satisfying marriage.
There are so many voices at play in our world today. Many of these encourage us to rush into marriage with anyone as soon as we find a strong attraction. This is not wise and God wants to mature you in your Christian dating and bonding process. It is my prayer that Christian singles will use the above to develop their own Christian dating guide for building a strong and satisfying relationship.
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