Friday 31 January 2014

Dating to relating

The Impact of Online Dating Sites



The College Dating Scene – Offline and Online



Dating is nothing new. It has been around for as long as anyone can remember. Ask your parents and your grandparents and they will tell you the same thing. The principles remain the same, only the particular situations and perhaps the “methods” have changed.



In college, the dating scene is even more dynamic. People who are almost adults – but not quite yet – are thrown into a pool of opportunity when it comes to interacting with the opposite sex. At this time in our lives, we are probably getting nearer to the point where we might actually seriously consider settling down with someone else. Of course, that is not the sole reason for dating. For many college students, dating is merely something fun to do. And why not? With so many other people that you can meet, it is always a pleasure to spend time with them.



In the days prior to the Internet as a common tool for everyone, possibilities for dates were limited to having someone introduce you to another person, meeting someone at the bar, and other similar instances. With the revolutionary effects of the Internet on our lives however, dating has taken on new heights – people can start dating online .



The Reality of Online Dating



Whether you admit it or not, there is some stigma associated with meeting people online – especially through dating sites. The idea that some people have is that why does a person have to go online to find a date. The answer is actually quite logical – it may be because the people around her or him are so limited in the qualities and characteristics that she or he does not find anyone attractive enough to date! In fact, the stigma should not be placed on the person going online but the people around the person! Yeah I know, it is taking things too far, but you get my point? There is nothing wrong or strange about going online to find a date.



In fact, online dating opens up so many possibilities for anyone. If you rely on the “traditional” way of meeting people. you are limited by geography. On the other hand, online dating offers you the possibility of meeting a person halfway across the world – who just might be the person you have been looking for.



Of course, just because you engage in online dating doesn’t mean that everything will be perfect for you. In fact, you still have to maintain the common sense that you need even for traditional dating. More so, you might want to exercise a bit of caution (emotional and physical alike) in online dating. Indeed, online dating has changed the lives of many people, for those who have given it a chance and have seen it in the proper perspective.



How To Choose Online Dating Sites



There are countless online dating sites on the Internet today. That is why you also have to be discriminatory when signing up for these sites – whether paid or unpaid. You also need to exercise caution when revealing personal information. Don’t reveal too much as you never know who can be looking at your profile at any given time. Here are some specific tips on how to choose an online dating site .



The first thing that I would suggest is to decide whether or not you are willing to pay for an online dating service. If you are willing to pay, then determine your budget.



Talk to family and friends about it. I know it may be awkward but if you know people who have tried an online dating site, it would be better to get their opinion before signing up yourself.



If you do not want to talk to others about it, then you can just go online and do a search on Google, Yahoo, or MSN. Enter phrases such as “online dating”, “meet someone new”, or “online personals”. The results will show you potential choices for a dating site.



Narrow down your search by considering specialized sites. Some sites cater to specific religions, ethnic groups, etc. You can also narrow your list more by writing down the pros and cons of each site that interests you and then take a free test run for each of them.



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Опубликовано: 26 июня 2013 г.



Join us at Dominion World Outreach Center in Poplar Bluff, Mo for a special month of teaching on Relationships in July. Every Sunday evening in the month of July we will be viewing the DVD's series, "Dating and Relating" by Mark Gungor. This series is mostly geared toward the teenage and young adult generation but is good for all adults as well. Service will begin at 6pm.



Mark is the Senior Pastor of Celebration Church, a multi-site church with five. campuses across Wisconsin, and the CEO of Laugh Your Way America. Mark balances his pastoral duties with a rigorous travel schedule. He speaks for churches, civic events, and business meetings and is a much requested speaker for the US Army.



Mark has also been featured on national broadcasts such as Focus on the Family, Life Today and ABC News. His Better Marriage Minute radio program is heard on 250 radio stations nationwide and his daily internet radio talk show, The Mark Gungor Radio Show, debuted in the fall of 2008. He is also the creator of the television series, Love, Marriage, and Stinking Thinking broadcast around the world on various networks including TBN.



Mark is the author of Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage® (Simon & Schuster, 2008), the book based on his phenomenally successful seminar and years of working with thousands of couples. He is married to Debbie, his high school sweetheart and constant travel companion. The Gungors have been married for over 36 years and have two married children and four grandsons.



Denver 's Best Dating, Mating, and Relating Group



A place for singles thirtyish to fiftyish to get inspired and informed about creating extraordinary relationships by learning and sharing how to navigate the minefield called dating combined with something like speed dating, only better!



First of all, we have a topic at each Meetup. (Say, for instance, "What Are Your Dating Dilemmas.") Then a question is asked for each small group of 4 - 6 folks to debate. such as, "What are your top 3 dating dilemmas?" So while you're getting to know each other in your small groups, and sharing your thoughts on the topic, people are learning and getting to meet other eligible singles at the same time!



Then, we change who we sit with for a total of 3 times during the two hour format! What's not to love about meeting lots of new people, learning lots about the world of dating and love, and having tons of fun to boot?!



So bring your dating questions, successes, and not-so-great stories so that you can figure out what you're doing that you should repeat, and what you should quit doing ASAP! After all, we are all the common denominator in all our relationships and unfortunately, many of us tend to repeat our relationship patterns over and over again even if they prove to be unsuccessful.



So join a group of those who want to glean the answers! We'll discuss everything from Internet Dating profiles, to first date do's and don'ts (so that you get that crucial second date), ideas about how to meet people, how to detect Red Flag behaviors that should be telling you to move on when maybe you just keep hanging on to the wrong mate, and so much more. With a mix of guys and gals you can get that helpful opposite sex insight that we all think we know but are sometimes oh so wrong on!



Maybe your dream date will be sitting right next to you at the meeting! So bring your smile and any questions you've got! It's only $10!



And who am I, your leader? Check out my broader site regarding everything relating to Dating, Mating, and Relating at www. RelationshipWIZE. com! And you will discover my story of how I became a dating expert while you're there too.

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