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The Appalling Responses To A Woman Who Wore A Fat Suit To Meet Her Tinder Dates
The Huffington Post By Cavan Sieczkowski
What happens when someone’s online dating photos don’t match the real-life version?
For men and women, the responses are dramatically different — and definitely a bit sexist.
In the world of online dating, women are afraid of meeting a serial killer while men are afraid of meeting someone who is fat, at least according to one survey cited in HBO’s 2011 documentary, “When Strangers Click: Five Stories From the Internet.” The guys behind Simple Pickup. a male-driven dating site “devoted to the fine art of picking up girls,” decided to conduct a social experiment to test this very theory.
The idea behind Simple Pickup’s social experiment was to capture the responses of both males and females who meet someone on Tinder who weighs “a little more than [his or her] photo suggests.”
First, they found male Tinder matches for a female friend, using photos that showed her appearing physically thin. Then, before the date, they used body adhesives and makeup to make her appear physically larger than in her photos. A hidden camera was set up at the date site to record the reactions of each of the five men she met during the day.
The results were nothing short of awful. Responses ranged from quizzical to angry. One guy claimed he was married. Another went to use the bathroom, but never returned.
“You look kind of more voluptuous … Are you pregnant?” one man asked before saying “I really don’t appreciate people lying to me,” and leaving.
“It’s very upsetting,” another said. “I’m a little upset. I wasted gas and my time to come over here, and I can’t do this.”
Of the five matches, only one stayed the entire time — although, at one point he did ask her: “Do you like to eat?”
A man doesn’t have to be attracted to a woman to respect her. yet that’s exactly what unfolds in the video. Just because a woman is fat doesn’t mean she isn’t sexy — and encountering a fat woman rather than a thin one does not relieve anyone from practicing human decency.
Simple Pickup conducted the same exact experiment with the roles reversed, using a male participant and female Tinder matches, and the results were shockingly different.
When the Tinder matches met the man who was made up to appear heavier in person, they were not nearly as blunt as their male counterparts. Although each one acknowledged he looked different from his photos, most were nice. Three were willing to continue the date or go out with him again, and one gave him a kiss.
Watch the two social experiments below.
CLICK HERE to see Video with men responses to meeting her….
Click here to see women respond to man that weighs more then his picture
Originally Posted by The Huffington Post By Cavan Sieczkowski
The Appalling Responses To A Woman Who Wore A Fat Suit To Meet Her Tinder Dates
The Huffington Post By Cavan Sieczkowski
What happens when someone’s online dating photos don’t match the real-life version?
For men and women, the responses are dramatically different — and definitely a bit sexist.
In the world of online dating, women are afraid of meeting a serial killer while men are afraid of meeting someone who is fat, at least according to one survey cited in HBO’s 2011 documentary, “When Strangers Click: Five Stories From the Internet.” The guys behind Simple Pickup. a male-driven dating site “devoted to the fine art of picking up girls,” decided to conduct a social experiment to test this very theory.
The idea behind Simple Pickup’s social experiment was to capture the responses of both males and females who meet someone on Tinder who weighs “a little more than [his or her] photo suggests.”
First, they found male Tinder matches for a female friend, using photos that showed her appearing physically thin. Then, before the date, they used body adhesives and makeup to make her appear physically larger than in her photos. A hidden camera was set up at the date site to record the reactions of each of the five men she met during the day.
The results were nothing short of awful. Responses ranged from quizzical to angry. One guy claimed he was married. Another went to use the bathroom, but never returned.
“You look kind of more voluptuous … Are you pregnant?” one man asked before saying “I really don’t appreciate people lying to me,” and leaving.
“It’s very upsetting,” another said. “I’m a little upset. I wasted gas and my time to come over here, and I can’t do this.”
Of the five matches, only one stayed the entire time — although, at one point he did ask her: “Do you like to eat?”
A man doesn’t have to be attracted to a woman to respect her. yet that’s exactly what unfolds in the video. Just because a woman is fat doesn’t mean she isn’t sexy — and encountering a fat woman rather than a thin one does not relieve anyone from practicing human decency.
Simple Pickup conducted the same exact experiment with the roles reversed, using a male participant and female Tinder matches, and the results were shockingly different.
When the Tinder matches met the man who was made up to appear heavier in person, they were not nearly as blunt as their male counterparts. Although each one acknowledged he looked different from his photos, most were nice. Three were willing to continue the date or go out with him again, and one gave him a kiss.
Watch the two social experiments below.
CLICK HERE to see Video with men responses to meeting her….
Click here to see women respond to man that weighs more then his picture
Originally Posted by The Huffington Post By Cavan Sieczkowski
Are you sick and tired of seeing Asian women slip through your fingers because you "messed up" and did something wrong to scare her away? Are you utterly puzzled by Asian women's completely "unexplainable" behavior?
Let's face it. if you ever thought that Asian women are "easy meat", you have completely been LIED to. try going after them and you'll see straight away how annoyingly difficult it is to get them!
"How do I know?"
It's because I’ve been through them myself, done it all.
I've been slapped, laughed at, ignored & humiliated, even beaten up FIVE TIMES (by jealous boyfriends) just for approaching and talking to them! -- whatever it is, you name it, I've done it.
No matter how hard I tried, I could never "seal the deal" & get myself an Asian girl. One after another, I was always thrown off-guard with their "on again, off again" behavior. I kept getting blown off. over and over again. It was confusing. It was painful. It was awful. That rejection. That feeling of helplessness; that no matter how hard you try, these women simply are repelled by you.
I know the feelings of hopelessness & desperation that came from those situations are hard to swallow. And yes, I also know how it makes you cringe with shame every time you even think about it.
I know that feeling well. that antsy, unbearable feeling of needing to change.
You're getting restless, feeling a little uncomfortable in your own skin because you know you're not facing up those problems, and of course. it's so easy to just close your eyes. sweep it all under a rug. and let fate "take care of itself" like how you ALWAYS do.
But deep down.
You know you need help, you want answers & you want them fast!
Asian Girls. Super-Sexy, Super-Sweet, Super Hot. But
brutal as hell. and they will not hesitate to walk off mid-sentence if they don't like (or understand) what they're hearing. They will not hesitate to leave you hanging & walk away when things suddenly don't feel "right" without saying a word (it's part of their culture not to confront and hurt your feelings).
And it comes as no surprise. why? Think about it. knowing little, knowing close to nothing about their culture, their language, their roots. of course they fail. It's sad. but unfortunately, the things a guy would normally try to do to ‘convince’ an Asian woman to like him back will actually end up pushing her further away. even though it seems like the right thing to do at the time!
Fact: Asian women are a completely different breed.
. and conventional "westernized" methods will scare them away!
If you've ever talked to an Asian girl before, you'll realize how different they are straight away! "Westernized", non-Asian girls are generally more outgoing, spirited & lively. she'll be a tad more "open-minded", proactive and will likely pick up a conversation when it stalls. she's likely to participate more, touch you more. and generally be EASIER to read.
Asian women on the other hand are not so "straightforward", open-minded and transparent.
Example: First, there's the whole Asian misconception with kino and touch (use it wrongly, use it too soon and she'll run faster than Ben Johnson). There's another about language -- when you're going after a girl where English is not her first language, miscommunications are bound to happen one way or another, an innocent funny little comment you make might probably just
Turn Her Off And Scare Her Away!
Then there's this thing about maintaining "face" in front of society. To an Asian girl, "image" means THE WORLD to her. Her "face", the way people perceive her is extremely important to her. It's to die for. Put it on the line, shake it a little or mess with it even for a brief second and your chances with her disappears *poof*. just like that!
And that's the MAIN reason why you may have encountered resistance from an Asian girl when you tried to jump the gun and sexually escalate with her in public (she'll get offended, back off and push you away). but once you're both alone and out of sight from everyone, she'll pounce on you with raw aggression and sexual instincts like no other!
Most guys fail simply because they simply do not understand them: what makes them "tick": what their values, customs and backgrounds are. and how to push their emotional "hot buttons" -- the most vital ingredients to finding, meeting and "closing the deal" with the right Asian woman.
. And that's why you're on this page right now. you're frustrated with your lack of success with Asian women. you're not getting what you want from them. Why?: Cos you're saying the wrong things, to the wrong girl, at the wrong time. And until right now, you didn't know any better. that's why!
Others end up embarrassed, dejected. disappointed, disillusioned even because their relationship with an Asian woman didn't work out.
The reality is that these situations happen all the time!… and all too often guys end up missing out on opportunities with them because they just don’t know “what to do”.
The Private Man
Helpful Hint For A Woman’s Online Dating Profile
Since this page is proving so popular I urge you readers to learn about the one-on-one, phone-based dating and attraction advice I offer.
[This post has persistence. With that in mind, here are three other posts that directly addresses some of the dating challenges that women face: A Dating Exercise For Women. the Amazing Follow-up , and A Huge Dating Secret For Women. Enjoy]
I read so many online dating profiles that I get dizzy. The vast majority of women’s online dating profiles are completely and utterly generic: Walks on the beach, shopping, I’m fabulous, I love my dog, no games, family and friends are important. This goes on ad infinitum and ad nauseam. Such generic text does not speak well of a woman’s sense of honest introspection.
Worse, the photos are simply awful. Bad photos tell men that the woman really isn’t making much of an effort. Advice? Professional photographs. I mean that. Who is telling women that men are not visual? Is Oprah or Dr. Phil telling those lies? Someone needs a clue-by-four upside the head.
It’s been said over and over again: Women must bring something to the dating and relationship table if they want something more than just a short-term fling. Women are the gatekeepers of sexuality. The flip side of that is that men are the gatekeepers of commitment. In the long run, men hold the relationship power (most of them just don’t know it).
With this in mind, a good online dating profile must clearly spell out what a woman offers to her potential paramour and candidate for a committed relationship. Here’s another huge mistake that a woman makes – she describes herself in terms of what she wants in a man. This is where the strong and independent fallacy takes shape. A woman wants a strong and independent man so she incorrectly believes that a man wants a strong and independent woman. That is completely wrong. Men want a feminine women but one who is resilient and self-reliant. The feminine attracts the masculine.
As men are rational and logical creatures regarding dating, a woman should specifically state what she offers in terms of what a man actually wants. A list is not the stuff of romance unicorns and rainbows. But a woman must consider her audience. Logic and reason are masculine qualities and a woman must communicate to such an audience with her profile.
I’ll make it easy for the women with an example and format to use. My comments are in brackets. These are only examples. If a woman wants to use this example, she best do a serious inventory of what she offers a man.
Top 10 Reasons Why I Would Be Your Best Girlfriend Ever:
10. You will see me wearing sexy lingerie more than “comfortable” undies. [I think this is fairly obvious.]
9. You won’t hear me nag and complain because I don’t sweat the small stuff. [Men loathe nagging and complaining. It's sandpaper on our eardrums and on our brains.]
8. You will be proud to have me on your arm when we go out in public and your friends will probably be envious. [Dresses, skirts, high heels makeup, and good hair. A man wants to take pride in the woman on his arm.]
7. You will never, ever compete with me. [Men compete with each other, not the woman in his life. competitiveness is a masculine trait.]
6. You will be nicely surprised when I kiss you passionately at unexpected times and in unexpected places. [Affection helps to bond a man to you.]
5. You will never see me roll my eyes at you when you say something because I will respect you. [Men want respect and even small signs of disrespect will drive a man away from you. Try that shit in public and I advise the man to walk away immediately without regret.]
4. You will see my smile far more often than my frown. [Negative feelings are mostly unnecessary drama for men. As the Swedes say about a good woman - she should be happy, horny, and grateful]
3. You will find yourself thinking seriously about my observations on life and current events. [Many men won't well tolerate a woman who only knows shopping and reality TV.]
2. You won’t be holding my purse at the shoe store. You won’t even BE at the shoe store with me. [Do you see that bored chump in the shoe store holding his girl's purse? 'Nuff said.]
1. You rarely, if ever, hear these awful words: “I’m not in the mood”. [Deny sex too often and he will deny or break his commitment. Go ahead ladies, try it. If he still sticks around anyway then you will quickly learn to loathe him.]
Notice how these statements are structured with the personal pronoun “you” leading each one. The emphasis is on the guy, not the gal. An entitlement princess would never write such things. This kind of list should lead the profile to show what the woman offers in the context of dating and relationships.
As for the rest of the profile, that advice will come later. Let’s just say it isn’t a list of demands but a more creative way of expressing a woman’s preferences in a man.
Final Note – Consider the services of a professional dating coach. Seriously, I mean that.
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