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“Jennifer Smith” (jenniferbab86@gmail. com, jennifer86@softemail. net) sent us this:
Hello :)
thnx for reply back to my ad! Well, let me tell you a bit about myself…I’m young, I’m outgoing, i like to have fun, and sometimes I’m told that I’m cute lol. I attached my pic, so u can be the judge ;). To be honest I actually don’t have that much of a hard time hooking up with men, as I’m new to the area so i don’t actually know anyone yet and I’m not into the bar scene when I’m not with a group of my girl friends. I’m ready to just hook up with someone and have some fun, so i hope you’re looking for the same. at the same time, I’m kinda afraid of this kind of hookup online though. A friend of my said she tried it before and ended up with a crazy dude who never left her alone :/. not trying to throw you off though, i certainly would like to try this, i just wanna make sure you r actual and serious before we actually get together :). Hopefully you still wanna hook up, so yeah just send me an email back and we can work things out.
Looking forward to hear back u :D
We replied to that and she then sent us this:
Hi again,
Glad i hear back from you. i’m bit excited just now, can not wait anymore to hook up :) as, like i said previou email, i’m not exactly all for this type of thing, but i am willig to try it out. i actually have a profile at http://craigssecuredating. com/members/jennifer86/ and i ask that you go there and complete the verification to show u r real and safe, as i previously have :). Really sorry if that seems like too much trouble, but it’ll just take a minute and i would like you to just get that done before we move forward. Once you complete it anyways you will have access to my full profile page with my phone number and address. Call my cell number instead of the home one if I’m out so we can talk sooner :)
Just text me if you can not get a hold of me, but you should be able to anyways…and then yes, my details are already there if you’d like me to host ;)
Anyway, I put a cute little picture up there for you, hope you love it! Theres some better ones on my full profile too :)
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This is yet another scam whereby the person who created this Jennifer Smith character reaps profits by tricking people into signing up for porn sites. CraigsSecureDating. com is not an actual dating site, it’s just a mock-up of a dating site. If you give them your credit card information, you’ll find that you’ve been charged for subscriptions to porn sites.
CraigsSecureDating. com is hosted by HostGator. If you’ve received a scam message asking you to sign up for CraigsSecureDating. com, send a complaint to security@hostgator. com. Be sure to include a copy of the e-mail headers with your complaint. You should also send a complaint to LunarPages. com, which hosts lpmail04.lunariffic. com and softemail. net, the sites used for sending the scam messages. The address for that is abuse@lunarpages. com.
UPDATE 6/5/2012: CraigsSecureDating. com is no longer hosted HostGator. Ovh Systems hosts it now. Submit your complaints via their website abuse. ovh. net. or by sending an email message to abuse@ripe. net.
Saturday, February 20, 2010
The Perfect Email - Replying to Women on Craigslist
I've been experimenting for a long time with different strategies on the perfect email reply to a woman's ad on Craigslist and after many rewriting sessions, I think I've come upon the perfect email reply to a woman's ad on Craigslist. Without further ado, here it is:
Hello,
I doubt this will even reach you because I'm sure the second you posted that ad on Craigslist, your email inbox was swarmed by dozens of guys who are a dime a dozen. I'm not one of those guys.
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I'm (INSERT AGE), (INSERT HEIGHT, (INSERT RACE), and don't have any issues meeting women. I (WHAT DO YOU DO) - basically I have my life together and am looking for someone to just randomly have fun with, just like you are. I'm devoted to what I do and spend most of my waking time working. I'd like to break the monotony with someone I can have a great conversation with while basically, fucking each other's brains out. Then, we get back to our business and our lives. I don't have the time for a relationship, nor do I want one, but I will always make time for some fun.
If you read this and are interested AND you're not a spambot, pls reply and I'd be more than happy to send a picture.
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So far, I've had 2 out of my 3 emails replied to for a fantastic 66% reply rate. For most guys, the reply rate is 0% on Craigslist and that’s just the sad reality of online dating on Craigslist. There is really isn't that much competition if you know how to approach Craigslist the right way. If you're going to write a stupid reply without first thinking of what she wants to hear, of course you're not going to get a reply back.
With the email I have written above, I'm trying to strike a chord in the women reading these emails - they are going to see a ton of garbage from guys - guys who send penises, stupid emails that say let's fuck, or other inane things - and what you want to do is provide a breath of fresh air to her inbox and give her something she has to think about. If she sees a big penis flashing on screen, she doesn't have to think twice about closing that as fast as possible. Contrary to most beliefs, women really don't like pensises being flashed in their face as much as a guy loves the flash of a vagina across his screen.
So the goal here is to use my template to meet women on Craigslist and adapt it to your own email replies. If you get a reply, please leave a comment!
Instructions
Click on a category under "Personals" that applies to the relationship you are interested in. For instance, you may select "men seeking women" if you are a male looking for a female. This brings up a new page.
Review the disclaimer. If all information is accurate, such as the fact that you are at least 18 years old, continue by clicking on the hyperlink for your category. A new screen displays the ads.
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Dating ain’t what it used to be (nd it never will be again). The net, craigslist, and all the big online dating sites changed everything forever. Behold: an anonymous 24/7 sea of potential partners. Whether paid sites like Match or eHarmony, or free wheeling craigslist personals, anyone can and everyone does. In fact, online dating is so mainstream that it’s almost boring. Unless you’ doing it.
Not only has the internet changed dating, it’s changed cheating too. Partners (future, current and ex-) Google each other, scour Facebook and Twitter, read and re-read blogs, and more. Heck, craigslist is woven into more than one epsisode of Law & Order (for good reason).
Online dating carries little stigma and one is no longer labeled a loser for using the net to hunt, shop, and forage. craigslist has surpassed newspaper classifieds and online dating sites like match, nerve, eHarmony, et al. have replaced traditional face-to-face dating, let alone matchmakers (shadchen).
Ladies, if you’re going to use craigslist to shop for a man (or any other dating site for that matter), please read my advice for women and craigslist. Being a free country, you’re free to ignore any or all of what I say. Otherwise you may find yourself guilty of any number of craigslist sins. You may, just may . find that heeding some of my suggestions will aid in your search for Mr. Right (or Mr. Wrong if that’s your kink. See “samsara”.
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Let's get this out of the way right now: Yes, there are serious disadvantages to online dating. There are security and safety concerns.
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And a bit of Craigslist dating advice: Don't trust anyone who seems too good to be true and don't put your personal details out there. ever.
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